Worship at Home

The oldest way

What we do can sound made up, or new, or like a shortcut around real church. It is the opposite. Gathering in a home, around a table, with a meal and a few people and no building, is the oldest way there is. It is what Jesus did on his last night, and what his friends did after him, for three hundred years, before anyone built a church at all. The buildings came later. The simple thing was first.

Here is the history, plainly, with the record it rests on.

What Jesus did

On the night before he died, Jesus did not go to a temple. He borrowed a room. An upstairs room in someone's house, with a table in it, and there he shared a meal with his friends. He took bread, and broke it, and passed a cup, and told them to keep doing this to remember him. That is the first Lord's Supper, and it happened at a table in a home, over food, among a handful of people who loved him.

He left them almost nothing in the way of instructions. No building to raise. No office to fill. What he left was the meal, and a promise: where two or three come together in his name, he is there among them. Two or three. Not two or three hundred, not a sanctuary full. The smallest gathering there is, and he counts it enough to show up for.

What the first followers did

After he rose, his followers did the plainest thing. They kept meeting the way they had met with him: in houses, around tables, over meals. The book of Acts says they broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and generous hearts. Not in a hall. From house to house.

Read the letters of Paul and you find the same thing, over and over, named out loud. He greets the church that meets in the house of a couple named Priscilla and Aquila. He mentions the church in the house of a woman named Nympha. He writes to a man named Philemon and greets the church that gathers in his home. There was no other kind of church. The word they used, the one we translate "church," did not mean a building. It meant a gathering, an assembly of people. You could not have pointed at a church. You could only have joined one.

And what did they actually do when they gathered? A meal, first of all, a real one. The bread and the cup, in his memory. Someone read aloud, from the letters and the accounts of Jesus and the old scriptures. They prayed. They made peace with each other. And they took up something for the poor among them, so that no one at the table went without. That is the whole shape of it, and you will notice it is the shape of the order we keep now, because we did not invent it. We inherited it.

The witnesses from outside

You do not have to take the church's word for any of this. Outsiders wrote it down too.

Around the year 110, a Roman governor named Pliny wrote to his emperor for advice about what to do with the Christians in his province. He had questioned some. Here is what he learned they did: they met on a fixed day before it was light, sang a song to Christ as to a god, and bound themselves by an oath, not to any crime, but to never lie, never steal, never break their word. Then they went away, and came back together to share a meal of ordinary food. A Roman official, no friend of theirs, describing a group of people who gathered early, sang, promised to be good, and ate together. That is the record from the year 110.

Around the year 155, a Christian named Justin wrote a long defense of the faith to the emperor, and in it he described exactly what happened when they met. On the day called Sunday, he says, everyone who lives in the town or the country gathers in one place. The accounts of the apostles or the writings of the prophets are read, for as long as there is time. Then the one leading speaks, and urges everyone to live out these good things. They all stand and pray. Bread and wine and water are brought, and thanks is given over them, and the people answer "Amen," and everyone shares. And what is collected is given to the orphans and widows, to the sick, to those in prison, to the stranger passing through. Read that and you are reading us, almost exactly, seventeen hundred years early.

Even the prayers we say over the bread and the cup are that old. They come from a little handbook called the Didache, from the earliest days of the church, which prays that as the grain was once scattered on the hills and gathered into one loaf, so God would gather his people together. Those are the words on our own prayer page. We did not write them. We kept them.

Three hundred years with no building

Here is the part most people never hear. For roughly the first three hundred years, there were no church buildings. None. Christians met in homes, the whole time, across the whole empire, through waves of persecution. When they finally did adapt a space, it was still a house. The oldest Christian meeting place anyone has ever found, dug up at a town called Dura-Europos in Syria, dates to around the year 233, and it is exactly that: an ordinary home, with one wall knocked back to make a room a little larger for the gathering. A house. Three hundred years in, and the "church building" was still someone's house.

Where the buildings came from

So where did the cathedrals come from, and the steeples, and the professional clergy, and the long aisle with the crowd on one end and the holy work on the other?

They came from an emperor. In the year 313, a Roman emperor named Constantine made Christianity legal, and then he did something new: he spent imperial money on grand stone buildings for it. The form he used was the basilica, which was not a holy shape at all. It was the shape of a Roman law court, a hall of government power. He built them in Rome, in Jerusalem, in Bethlehem, in his new capital. Worship walked out of the living room and into a monument.

And with the great rooms came the rest of it, slowly: a set-apart clergy to run them, a platform, a distance between the few at the front and the many in the seats, a building to fund and to fill. None of that came from Jesus. None of it came from Pliny's early risers or Justin's Sunday gathering. It came from an emperor, and from a faith that had grown large and legal and needed somewhere to put the crowds. There are good reasons a growing movement builds. But it is worth being clear about what was added, and when, and by whom.

Why this is enough

We are not saying the great churches are wrong, or that the one you may love is a mistake. Enormous good has been done inside those walls, and enormous beauty made, and God has plainly met people there. If you have a church you love, keep it.

We are saying something smaller and older. What Jesus actually left his friends was not a building or an office. It was a meal, a promise about two or three, and each other. That was the whole of it, and for three hundred years it was enough, and it is enough still. You do not need permission, or a professional, or a place. You need a room, a table, some bread, and a few people who love God and each other. When you gather like that, you are not doing a stripped-down, second-best version of church. You are doing the first one.


The history here rests on the New Testament (Acts 2:46; the house churches named in Romans 16:5, 1 Corinthians 16:19, Colossians 4:15, and Philemon); on the Roman governor Pliny the Younger's letter to the Emperor Trajan, written about the year 110; on Justin Martyr's First Apology, written about the year 155; on the Didache; and on the house church excavated at Dura-Europos, dated to about the year 233. That the earliest Christians met in homes, and that dedicated church buildings came in the fourth century under Constantine, is the settled agreement of historians. Where we go past the record, in calling this what Jesus intended, we are reading his own supper and his own words about the two or three, and we say so plainly.